Chapter 11

Projects, approvals and conflict

You don't run the church alone. Big building work, calling a pastor, and leaving the denomination all need the approval of whoever your tradition says decides, and some changes, above all taking out cherished pews, start a fight. This chapter explains who decides in each tradition, how they make up their minds, and how to get your way without losing people.

What needs approval

Once the church is open, building work of $25,000 or more in one go needs approval. Work of $25,000 or more is a renovation; work of $150,000 or more is new construction. A single item, however dear (an organ, a steeple), counts as a renovation. Where the pastor or priest decides renovations alone, without anyone's advice, renovations simply go ahead.

A church that starts on an empty lot, as a sandbox does, needs no approval until it first passes the building check. Buying more land always does.

Three other things wait as proposals too: calling a pastor, where your church calls its own (see Staff and volunteers); leaving the denomination (see Traditions, beliefs and stances); and adopting a designation such as Open and Affirming (see Traditions, beliefs and stances).

The building preview tells you before you commit, for example: "Needs the members' vote (in 4 weeks); paid for only if approved." Until it's decided, the work waits as a proposal, unpaid, and can be withdrawn from Church → Projects. If by the time it's decided the work can't be done as proposed, or the candidate you called has gone, it lapses.

Church → Projects at Calvary Baptist: renovations and new construction both need the members' vote, and a steeple and bells waits with the members until 1 February, with Withdraw beside it.
Church → Projects at Calvary Baptist: renovations and new construction both need the members' vote, and a steeple and bells waits with the members until 1 February, with Withdraw beside it.

Who decides

WhoHowWhen
The pastor or priestDecides alone, or with a board's adviceAt once; a week on where a board advises
A board (council, session, vestry, trustees, elders)Its seven longest-serving eligible members voteTwo weeks on
The membersEvery member of 16 and over who votes, votesFour weeks on
The wider body (diocese, district, conference, presbytery)Reviews the finances and standingSix weeks on

Where a second approver must consent, it decides after the first has said yes, taking its own time on top: a members' vote with the presbytery's consent takes four weeks and then six more.

Boards

Thresholds, consensus, and advice

Calls

Where your church calls its own pastor, Call on the Staff screen sends the candidate to whoever calls, and the button's tooltip says who. Voters back a call the more skilled the candidate, the happier they are, and the less the salary is against a year's income. A strong candidate at a modest salary, put to a content congregation, rarely fails. Where the wider body must consent (the ELCA's synod, a presbytery, a classis, an Episcopal diocese, a Nazarene district), it reviews the call as it reviews a building.

The traditions

TraditionRenovationsNew constructionCalling a pastor
Acts 29EldersElders, then the membersElders, then the members
AMETrustees (pastor sways)The districtSent
American BaptistMembersMembersMembers
ARCThe lead pastor, advised by the trusteesTrustees (pastor sways)Elders
Assemblies of GodMembers (pastor sways)Members, 60% (pastor sways)Members, two thirds
BrethrenMembersMembersMembers
Calvary ChapelThe senior pastor, advised by the boardThe senior pastor, advised by the boardThe board
CatholicThe priest, advised by the finance councilThe dioceseSent
Christian ChurchesEldersMembersElders
Christian ReformedCouncilMembersMembers, then the classis
Christian ScienceMembersMembersMembers elect two Readers
Church of God (Cleveland)The pastorThe pastor, advised by the trustees, then the districtSent
Churches of ChristElders, by consensusElders, by consensusElders, by consensus
COGICThe pastorThe districtSent
Coptic OrthodoxThe priestThe dioceseNamed from the parish; the diocese ordains
ELCACongregation councilMembersMembers, two thirds, then the synod
EpiscopalVestry (rector sways)Vestry, then the dioceseVestry, then the diocese
Free MethodistBoard of AdministrationBoard, then the conferenceSent
Friends (FGC)The meeting, by consensusThe meeting, by consensusNo pastor
Friends United MeetingThe meeting, by consensusThe meeting, by consensusThe meeting, by consensus
Jehovah's WitnessesThe eldersThe circuitNamed from the congregation; the circuit appoints
Latter-day SaintsThe bishopThe stakeThe stake calls a member
Lutheran (Missouri Synod)Board of trusteesMembersMembers, on the wider body's nominee
MennoniteMembersMembersMembers
MoravianBoard of trusteesMembers, then the districtSent
National BaptistMembers (pastor sways)Members (pastor sways)Members
NazareneChurch boardMembers, then the districtMembers, two thirds, then the district
NondenominationalElder board (pastor sways)Elder board (pastor sways)Elder board
Orthodox (OCA)The priestThe deanerySent
Pentecostal HolinessAdministrative council (pastor sways)Council, then the conferenceMembers ratify the nominee, two thirds, then the conference
Presbyterian (PC(USA))TrusteesMembers, then the presbyteryMembers, then the presbytery
Salvation ArmyThe divisionThe divisionSent
Seventh-day AdventistMembersThe conferenceSent
Southern BaptistMembersMembersMembers
Ukrainian CatholicThe priestThe eparchySent
Unitarian UniversalistMembersMembers, two thirdsMembers, 90%
United Church of ChristMembersMembersMembers
United MethodistTrusteesThe districtSent
United PentecostalThe saints (pastor sways)The saints (pastor sways)The saints
Vineyard USAChurch board (pastor sways)Church board (pastor sways)Church board

"Then the diocese" means the wider body consents after the first vote. While the wider body has a church under its supervision (see Traditions, beliefs and stances), it decides every project and the pastor itself. A church whose status changes (an Assemblies of God church that becomes district-affiliated, an Episcopal parish reduced to a mission) decides as its new status says.

Getting a yes

Cherished pews and conflict

Pews that have stood a year, or that came with the church, are cherished. Taking them out starts a conflict.

Church → Worship after taking out one oak pew at Calvary Baptist: 29 people opposed, a members' vote set for two weeks on, and the offer to hold listening sessions first.
Church → Worship after taking out one oak pew at Calvary Baptist: 29 people opposed, a members' vote set for two weeks on, and the offer to hold listening sessions first.

Changing the seating without losing people

  1. Consult first. Hold listening sessions (Church → Worship, once per conflict) takes 40% off everyone's opposition.
  2. Do it in one go. Take out everything you mean to at once, so it's one fight, not several.
  3. Or don't take them out. Add chairs in new space instead.
  4. Change your mind. Putting everything back before it comes to a head ends the conflict.

Pews you placed yourself less than a year ago go quietly.